Monday, October 29, 2012

Good Days!

The wait is over. A few posts back, I mentioned to you guys that something incredible happened. Something that has left me genuinely happy. I am finally ready to share with you guys what had happened. Well, I've finally braved up and said goodbye to something that's been a major part of my life for the past 5 years. I always thought saying goodbye would make me sad. I have always thought that saying goodbye would just be unthinkable. I always came home feeling burnt out, feeling extremely tired, and often times feeling unappreciated. I came home always feeling negative, with a mouth full of complaints. But then I always promised myself that the following day would be a better day. I felt like I had no time for myself, except for the time when I am sleeping. I worked from 8:30am-6:30pm Mondays-Thursdays and on Fridays I worked 8:30am-5:30pm and on Saturdays I would work 4 hours. In a week I worked a total of 63 hours! I was asked to work on Sundays and would have my day off on a different day of the week. Working on a Sunday was just too much to give up, it meant giving up my family day, my time with those I love, and my time for myself. I felt like it just was not worth it, considering that I had put in so much of myself into my job.

I learned that saying goodbye does not mean you are weak, saying goodbye could be one of the most courageous thing one could do. Saying goodbye could be a means of standing up for yourself, for your happiness, for what you believe in. The hardest part about saying goodbye is to admit to yourself that no matter how much you love something, if it no longer makes you happy and each day just seems like another long day in hell then it is finally time to move on. It seems like for the longest time I have always promised myself that tomorrow would be a better day, but tomorrow only gave me another reason to dread going to work, not because I didn't love my job, but it was absolutely difficult to work with a particular someone. I won't go into details about that, but the important thing is that I am extremely happy with where I am today.

The best thing about saying goodbye to that part of my life is that I am able to say hello to something much better. Hello to being genuinely happy. And hello to my dream job. I am working with an awesome company and the lady I work for is not only gorgeous and smart, she is also very kind and just all sorts of awesome and the best part is I am working from home, working at my own time and my own pace.  Life is good!

 So now, I leave you with a few pictures from the weekend.

My cousin is officially on his sem break! yey!


My lunch buddies at my favorite Chinese Restaurant, Grand Emperor Restaurant.

Me and my mom

Who says you can't buy a Good Day? hahahahaha. This is how I like to start my day.
P.S. I know it is completely off topic but in line with Halloween, what are your favorite scary movies? Since my cousin is on his sem break right now, we were planning to play couch potatoes and watch a lot of scary movies that would keep us up all night. hehehe

30 comments:

Nashe^ said...

Always good to be paid for doing something you enjoy :)

I have that Good Day box too but for Vanilla latte! ^^

CoastWithMe said...

Congrats girl! Good for you! It takes a lot of courage to say goodbye, but your happiness is the most important! On to bigger and better things:)! Thank you so much for visiting my blog! I'm following you now on GFC #600:)!

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iamjenalipio said...

You have done a good job.. :)

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Amely Rose said...

you all are so sweet

want to follow each other? i will defiently follow back

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amor said...

It feels good to be free from a stressful job that consumes your personal time. Stress if not handled well affects one's work performance (and personal life).

Glad you found a job that is making you happy =)

Yelle said...

That is such a great way to look at it! You're not saying goodbye to something, you're saying hello to something else!

Miki said...

You're so cute! ;) And I want all the food on that table ... Including the dessert, of course, haha.

Hope you have a wonderful week! ;D

Miki.

Lola and Lola said...

Beautifully written! You are so so right about all that. Congrats on taking the plunge :)

jillian at faith that laughs. said...

such cute pictures! thanks for stopping by my blog. xoxo

Dee {Strings and Buttons} said...

Glad you took that leap of faith! I'm sure it will pay off- Nothing like getting paid for doing something you enjoy! xx

Maggie said...

Love your cute shorts!!!

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You are sooo right, life is good!

Marsa said...

you and your cousin are so cute!
and i love dim sum!!!

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Marsa said...

ps i'm always afraid of saying goodbye to things too! but sometimes its just for the better. so happy for you and your new job! hope things keep betting better :)

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Suzie Q said...

Cute photos! Love your outfit in the first photo, so colorful!

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nancy @ adore to adorn said...

Good for you for being so strong! =) The positive attitude is what gets people far!

xo,
nancy

Veronica Yudina said...

So amazing blog, dear! Love it))
You have a new follower! Hope you'll do the same!
Thank you!

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Abi K. said...

Thank you for the comment on my blog. I am your new gfc friend :)

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Domestic Sweetheart said...

I love your pics! Happy Tuesday :)
xo
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Kei said...

congratulations for your new job! I'm happy that you are happy! :)
thank you for leaving such a sweet comment on my blog!

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Erica said...

Congrats on finding a job that is a better fit for you. :)

Ricademus said...

Yay Mel!!! Congratulations. The old job was taking too much from you. I'm glad you found a great company to join. But I hope they don't discriminate. Do they only hire pretty girls??? :)

AVY said...

Nice times!

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Faith and Love said...

Saying goodbye is definitely no sign of weakness in my eyes either. It takes a lot of courage to say goodbye to something or someone that no longer serves happiness in your life! Proud of you :D

Linde Lou said...

Wow. I Love it! You have so so great blog! <3

Would You like to follow each other? :)
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Crazy Shenanigans-JMO said...

I'm a firm believer in if it doesn't make you happy then don't do it! Glad you said goodbye to what was making you unhappy.

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Jenna said...

That frozen drink looks amazing!!! Cute pictures!

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Emmett Katherine said...

I'm glad that everything worked out for you. Working 60+ hours a week for long periods of time isn't good for you. It sounds like you're a lot happier now - you made the right decision.

I know it's past Halloween but to answer your questioning of my fave scary movies Is Suspiria.